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印度婚姻观:不附和和离过婚的女人完婚

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为什么不同意和一个离过婚的、特殊是生过孩子的女人完婚?

有人被看扁过吗?或许谁看法如许的人?

我置信随着工夫推移会变好。

但要做什么才干在生存此中或见远房亲戚时有厚脸皮并坚持明智呢?

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[–]kappa23

A notion that the woman is 'used'.

有一个看法是,仳离女人是二手货。

[–]Zeref21

Long story short: people like to think that "there was a reason behind the divorce"

Which creates a bad mentality towards divorced people

长话短说,人们偏向以为仳离是有缘由的。

这使得人们对离过婚的人有欠好的心态。

[–]Fukitol13

frivolous reasons are still good enough reasons .both men and women have been known to divorce because their partner wasnt good looking enough,or they fell out of "love".

would you deny them the freedom to choose their own partner?

噜苏的来由还是最好的来由,男男女女都晓得仳离是由于朋友不敷美丽,或许无爱了。

你会褫夺他们选择朋友的自在吗?

[–]kash_if

I think you're forgetting the crux of this discussion: these reasons add a stigma, no matter how frivolous they may be. Should it be assumed to be your fault if your partner fell out of love because they met someone new?

我以为你忘了这些讨论的要害:无论这些来由多噜苏,都添加了臭名。假如你们的朋友由于遇见了新的人而得到了爱,那是你的错吗?

[–]WannabeGigolo

In addition to the 'used' notion, the assumption that the woman is not good at maintaining a relationship and hence likely to divorce again.

除了;二手货的观点,也会假定女人不善于维持干系并能够再次仳离。

[–]TheWyzim

Doesn't the same apply to men also though maybe to a lesser extent? My uncle was divorced and he would only get rishtas from other divorced women. Which sounds fair to me.

仳离男子不也一样吗?能够水平轻一点。我叔仳离了,他只能再找其他仳离女性。我以为这是公道的。

[–]wanderingmindGoa

It applies to men too, but to a lesser extent. Men, even when divorced, are 'users' in the eyes of the patriarchy while women are the 'used'.

男子,即便仳离了,在父权社会看来也是;运用者,女人是;被运用者。

[–]TheWyzim

I somewhat disagree. A divorced man enjoys the privilege of being a male only if he is rich imo. A poor, divorced man has no gender-based advantage in the marriage market.

有些我差别意,一个离过婚的男子也只要在有钱的时分才干享用男子的特权,贫苦的仳离男子在婚姻市场上没有性别劣势。

[–]f42e479dfde22d8c

People who have come out of relationships come with baggage. Emotional baggage is just one thing. But in the case of divorce with children, the other parent may have visitation rights.

从一段干系中走出的人们会带着包袱,情绪包袱只是一件,万一是带孩子的仳离人士,另一个怙恃能够会探视。

[–]kappa23

Its not particularly fair, people should marry whomever they want to

这不是特殊公道,人们应该和他们想要的人完婚。

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heavily used

被用太屡次了。

[–]Khadmutra

Divorced women are looked down upon as she might have done something wrong. Also, a lot of men look for a 'fresh' alternative as opposed to 'used'.

For divorced men, they have to face questions of impotency and alimony.

仳离的女人被轻蔑,由于她能够做错了什么。别的,许多男性都在寻觅一种;新颖的选择,而不是;二手。

关于仳离的男子来说,他们不得不面临能干和米饭钱的题目。

[–]GoldPisseR

All this 'used' bullshit aside,guys are petrified of the prospect of raising their own kids you think they'll invest in someone else's?

二手的屁话都靠边站,男子们对扶养本人的孩子都惧怕,你以为他们会养他人的孩子吗?

[–]__edgelord__

Divorced women: yes.

Divorced woman with kids: No, not ready to take such high responsibility, I can't look after myself, forget about kids.

仳离女性:同意。

仳离带娃女性:不同意。还没预备承当那么高的责任,我本人都照顾欠好本人,忘了孩子吧。

[–]even_keeled

Best indicator of future behaviour is past behavior.

过来举动是将来举动的最好预测目标。

[–]GuydeMekaNorth America

I guess that would depend on the cause of the divorce.

我想这将取决于仳离的缘由。

[–]The-MitrComment score below threshold

one of the justifications that I have heard is why should you invest in raising children who have no genetic relation to you,

我听到的一个来由是:为什么要投资一个和你没血缘干系的孩子?

[–]GoldPisseR

You would, but what about a rich good looking divorcee even?

The thing is she has to trade down now, the best of guys won't even consider her.

你能够不会,但假如是一个有钱的、长得美观的仳离女性呢?

题目是她必需下嫁,最好的男孩乃至不会思索她。

(注:该留言复兴一个关于不会和二次仳离女人完婚的批评,太长故略。)

[–]Keerikkadan91

This is misleading; it's not specific to women (in India, at least) - it's just as "frowned upon" to marry a man who has been divorced and has kids.

这是误导,不针对女性(至多在印度)。就像也不同意嫁给仳离有孩的男子一样。

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